Sunday, March 16, 2014

What is Church Discipline? 2 Timothy 3:10 - 4:8

I grew up as an athlete. I loved sports. I enjoyed anything with a ball, but I was not very good in sports as a young child. I remember struggling in coach’s pitch Little League. My first year of basketball, I scored only 4 points in the entire season. Regardless of my struggles, I loved sports. I started to practice and practice and practice to improve my athletic craft. I spent hours at the gym playing basketball. I spent hours practicing my pitching motion by throwing a tennis ball against a brick wall at my elementary school behind my house. I wanted to grow as an athlete so I disciplined myself to become better. I disciplined myself to improve my athletic skill. As I grew, I became pretty good at sports. As a senior in high school, I was the captain of the football, basketball and baseball teams. People saw my work ethic, and they applauded me for my discipline in improving my skills. Discipline is necessary for an athlete to improve in their sport. Their discipline is applauded by the world.

Discipline is also necessary to improve the health of the church. The Protestant Reformers of the 16th century said that any true church is, “Where the word of God is truly preached and taught, the sacraments rightly administered, and church discipline faithfully exercised, there the one true holy and apostolic church is present.”[i]Discipline has always been part of the church. In our culture, the discipline to improve one’s athletic skill is applauded, but the discipline to improve the church of the living God is derided. We desperately need to recover a healthy, robust understanding of church discipline. We must desire a pure
church, a holy church, a church without wrinkle or blemish. I will attempt to clarify and explain what church discipline is and why it is needed in our age. Historically, there are two forms of church discipline, but I want to break church discipline down in four specific ways. First, we must recover…

Regular Precautionary Church Discipline

The church must protect their church membership. The church is for the believers in Jesus Christ. The call of the gospel goes wide and far. We invite all to come. We want all to gather with us. We love having visitors come, but membership must be kept for those who are believers of Jesus Christ. The church is the community of the faithful, those who have been brought into fellowship of the Son. Listen to 2 Timothy 3:10-12,

You, however, have followed my teaching, my conduct, my aim in life, my faith, my patience, my love, my steadfastness, my persecutions and sufferings that happened to me at Antioch, at Iconium, and at Lystra—which persecutions I endured; yet from them all the Lord rescued me. Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.

Paul makes a distinction of Timothy. He says, “You, however.” Timothy, you are different from others. How is Timothy different? He followed Paul’s teaching of the gospel of Jesus Christ. He believed that Jesus died for our sins in accordance with the Scriptures, that he was buried and that he was raised on the third day. Timothy was a Christian. He also demonstrated that he was a Christian by following Paul’s conduct and patience, and steadfastness, even being willing to suffer persecution for his faith.

How was Timothy so different? From whom did he differ? Chapter 3:1-9,

But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,3 heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, 4 treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people. 6 For among them are those who creep into households and capture weak women, burdened with sins and led astray by various passions, 7 always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. 8 Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so these men also oppose the truth, men corrupted in mind and disqualified regarding the faith. 9 But they will not get very far, for their folly will be plain to all, as was that of those two men.

Timothy was different than the people in the world. In particular, he was different than those who opposed the truth. Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father except through me.” To oppose the truth is to oppose Jesus Christ. Timothy was different, because he believed the truth. The first form of church discipline is to cautiously guard the church from people who do not follow the truth.

Before people join the church, it is our responsibility to make sure they are Christians. Do they believe the Bible? Do they believe in the bodily resurrection of Jesus Christ? Do they believe in the Trinity? Do they believe that people are saved by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone? Because if they don’t believe this, they are opposed to the truth and eventually they will either walk away from the church, bring division to the church, or bring shame upon the church. We must open our arms wide to invite people to our church, but we must show them the narrow road of the gospel of Jesus Christ. He is the door. He is the gate. All are welcome, but they must come through Him.

If you are a guest with us today, we are glad you are here. There no other place that we would desire you to be than here. We do not think of ourselves as particularly great people or special because of our good works, but we view ourselves as special because of the special grace of the Lord Jesus Christ. The Bible says that the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life. Everyone deserves death, but everyone has the opportunity to receive eternal life. John 3:16 says, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” God offers eternal life for whoever believes. Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ. Believe he died in your place on the cross bearing your judgment. Believe in his resurrection from the dead as your hope for your resurrection from the dead. The church is an exclusive group, but it is the most inclusive exclusive group there is. All are welcome, but all must come through Jesus Christ, for no man comes to God except through him. This is why the church must practice precautionary church discipline, to protect people and the church from those who oppose the truth.

Regular Formative Church Discipline


Every church already practices church discipline. They may not realize that they are doing it, but they are practicing a form of church discipline. Formative church discipline is what the church does to “form” or mold or shape people into the likeness of Christ. The goal of the Christian life is to grow up to be mature like Christ; to be transformed by God’s grace into the image of the Beloved Son. This primarily happens with the hearing and receiving of God’s Word. Paul gives Timothy a plan for his own growth as well as for the church as Timothy is a pastor of the local church in Ephesus. 2 Timothy 3:14 - 4:2,

But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it 15 and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 16 All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work. 1I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead, and by his appearing and his kingdom: 2 preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.

Paul tells Timothy to continue in learning and believing the Word of God. This incredible gift of God’s Word is given to make one wise for salvation and to make the believer competent and equipped for every good work. Formative Discipline is when we allow our lives to be formed and shaped around the Word of God. All Scripture is breathed out by God. God speaks to his people. The Creator of the Universe wants to mold and shape you through His wise counsel. As we read the word of God we see how it is profitable or useful for teaching us the right way to live. The word exposes us and reveals the things in our lives that need to be changed. The Word corrects our thinking and our living so that we can be trained in righteous.

The greatest good we can do as a church is to align our corporate practices and our individual lives to the Word of God. Mark Dever writes,

   If we were to compare discipline in the body of Christ to discipline in the physical body, then formative   discipline would be like eating right and exercising…Formative discipline is how the church gets in shape, stays in shape, and grows. So preaching, teaching, discipling, leading small group Bible studies, and gathering for corporate worship are all examples of formative discipline. These activities shape the way we grow, and they strengthen us for work, both as individuals and as a church. They can help prevent serious risk of false teaching, public scandal, contentiousness, or a host of other spiritual maladies; and they can even make the local church look more attractive to those on the outside.[ii]

Formative Church Discipline is essential for the spiritual health of the church. And fundamentally, how does this formative discipline occur? It happens through the regular hearing and preaching of the Word of God.

Listen to how important the Apostle Paul, under the inspiration of the Almighty God, thinks the preaching of the Word is in the life of the local church. Paul says to a local pastor,

I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead, and by his appearing and his kingdom: preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.

These are the marching orders for every pastor in the church. We preach so you can be reproved, rebuked, exhorted, with complete patience and teaching so that you will be wise for salvation on that day when you stand before Jesus Christ, who is to judge the living and the dead. Do you see how important this is?

Beloved, I do not believe that church attendance saves you, but I believe what God says in His Word and God loves His Word. He wants you to hear it. He wants you to gather with God’s people to hear His Word so you can be formed and shaped into the likeness of God. The regular discipline of hearing the Word of God will grow your spiritual health and the health of this church. This is why as a church we will continue to preach the Word of God.

Regular Corrective Church Discipline

I do a lot of writing in my ministry. I write articles for the forerunner, sermons, emails etc. And I am grateful for my wife because she helps to correct my writing. She reads what I have written and she corrects my verb usage, she adds words, she takes out words, she changes words, she gives suggestions, etc. My writing is drastically better because I have another set of eyes to look at my work to see what needs correction. The same is true for our lives. We need to have another set of eyes on our lives in order to correct us when we get off track. As we are formed by the Word and as we grow in our knowledge of the Word, we are better equipped to help correct our brothers and sisters who are in error.

Ephesians 4:15 says that we are called to be, “speaking the truth in love,” to one another. This helps see our sin and to be corrected. The problem is that we do not like to be corrected. I knew when I got married, I had to grow a lot as a husband. I periodically asked my wife “Is there anything I can do better as a husband?” The problem is that my wife told me how I could do better, and I really did not want to hear it. We must develop hearts that invite correction so we can grow to be like Christ. We have to see the value of corrective discipline. Listen to these verses that speak of this corrective discipline,

Proverbs 17:10, “A rebuke goes deeper into a man of understanding than a hundred blows into a fool.”

Proverbs 5: 22, 23 “The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him, and he is held fast in the cords of his sin. He dies for lack of discipline, and because of his great folly he is led astray.”

Proverbs 12:1 “Whoever loves discipline, loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.”

Proverbs 27:15, “Better is open rebuke than hidden love.”

Revelation 3:19, “Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline, so be zealous and repent.”

Hebrews 12:5-11 “And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.” It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline? If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons. Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”

Corrective Discipline is not a bad thing, but rather is a blessing. God disciplines us for our good so we may share in his holiness and bear the fruit of righteousness. Do you want that? Do you want to share in his holiness and to bear the fruit of righteousness? Then invite people to correct you.

In order for this corrective discipline to happen, you must work to develop godly relationships. Do you know anyone in the church well enough where if you were to ask them, “Do you see any area of my life that could use improvement?”, they would be able to answer you? It is not enough to ask the question, people have to know you well enough in order to answer the question honestly. We all have blind spots. We all need correction. No one is immune to the need of the body. We all need each other. Beloved, we must protect ourselves from being ineffective and impure. We do this by willingly listening to and inviting our brothers and sisters to speak the truth in love to us.

This is the picture Jesus gives in Matthew 18:15, “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.” When you are wronged, Jesus says that you should go and practice regular corrective discipline. If your brother sins against you, go and correct him, privately. We can never be the sin police. We want to be gracious and charitable to our brothers and sisters, but if there is an obvious offense go speak the truth in love. And when the person is corrected, if they listen, they gain a brother.” Many people think that Church Discipline is legalistic and produces self-righteous snobs. And wrongly understand, it can certainly do that, but corrective church discipline is a gift to protect us from ourselves. Jesus says before you help correct your brother in their sin, you must examine your own heart. Luke 6:41-42,

Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother's eye.

Beloved, let us grow in our desire and our willing to be corrected and in lovingly speaking the truth to our neighbor so that we may share in God’s holiness and bear the fruit of righteousness.

Irregular Protective Church Discipline


We are in the last days. We are living in dangerous times for souls. After Paul exhorts Timothy to preach the Word, he then provides his reason in verse 3-5,

For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths. As for you, always be sober-minded, endure suffering, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.

A time has come when people will not endure sound teaching. They do not listen to the Word of God, but listen to teachers that speak lies and they wander off into myths.

When people start to oppose the truth either with their life or with their belief, it is necessary for the church to protect their soul by removing them from the community. We are going to look at this in depth next week, but as we close, look at God’s Word. Paul is at the end of his life and he says,

For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. (2 Timothy 4:6-7).

Paul fought the good fight. He finished the race. He kept the faith. And because he did not wander into false belief and false living, but trusted in the gospel of Jesus Christ, he says,

Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing.

Paul received the crown of righteousness from Jesus Christ, the righteous judge. That crown that he was guaranteed is also guaranteed to all those who have loved his appearing, those who have loved the truth. How did Paul finish the race well? Listen to 1 Corinthians 9:24-27,

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified.

We must restore the practice of church discipline to protect people from wandering into myths and from opposing the truth because we want them to receive the crown of righteousness on that Day. We want to practice discipline so that we should not be disqualified from the prize. So let us press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.



[ii] Dever, Mark & Alexander, Paul. Deliberate Church: Building your Ministry on the Gospel p. 67 C. 2005

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Love Does No Wrong



For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment, are summed up in this word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself. Love does no wrong to a neighbor, therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.” Romans 13:9-10

Beloved,

When I first became a public school teacher, I was trained that all of my classroom rules should be stated positively. Since children responded better to positive directs, I was told to change the negative rules, like “No talking during the teacher’s instruction,” to “Listen when the teacher is talking.” In the Romans 13, Paul takes the negatively statements of the Ten Commandments and sums them up in a positive command. All of the Ten Commandments are summed up in this word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” He goes on to say, “love does no wrong to a neighbor” for love fulfills the law. Paul summarizes the principle taught by Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount where Jesus takes the Ten Commandments and teaches their true meaning. Matthew 5:21-22, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not murder….’ But I say to you that do not be angry (paraphrased).” The Pharisees were looking at the letter of the Law, but did not understand the Spirit of the Law.

The only way we can truly honor the Ten Commandments is to love our neighbor as ourselves. We are commanded to love our neighbors in such a way that our conduct and our inner thoughts do them no wrong. No fallen human being has ever perfectly kept the law. We all have done wrong to our neighbor, but the “New Adam”, Jesus Christ, perfectly fulfilled the law in his love in doing no wrong to his neighbor. His love fulfilled the law. He came to show how his people love and to enable his people to love. The law condemned us, but Christ has set us free. “For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death (Rom. 8:2).” You have died to the law through Christ so that, “you may belong to another, to him who has been raised from the dead, in order that we may bear fruit for God (Rom. 7:4).”

Beloved, we have been set free to love. You shall not do wrong to your neighbor in adultery, murder, stealing, or coveting, but you are to love them as Christ has loved you.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Who is in Charge of the Church?



“Who is in charge here?” This is a question that people do not like to hear, but love to ask. It usually means that someone is unhappy and they want to complain to the person that they feel is responsible for their unhappiness. Supervisors and managers do not like to hear this question because, usually, it is the start to a very difficult conversation. But to people who have been mistreated or do not like how something is run or are unhappy with a decision, the question “Who is in charge?” is indeed a valid one. If a toy sold at Walmart is unsafe for children, a parent will want to know, “Who is in charge?” “Who is responsible for this?” If a company makes a decision to stop paying overtime, the employees need to know, “Who is in charge?” If a newspaper prints an article that falsely accuses a politician, they need to know “who is in charge?” It is important to know who is in charge so one can know who to hold responsible if things go wrong and who to give credit when things go right. It is important to know who makes the decisions of a company or an organization. So, who is in charge of the church? The pastor? Deacons? Trustees? The one’s with the longest membership? The finance committee? The congregation? The biggest givers? The local association? The leaders in the denomination? God? “Who is in charge of the church?” Or another way to ask the question, “How is the church set up” or “What is the church’s government or polity?”

We have to ground this discussion in the Bible. We believe that the Bible is God’s Word. It is infallible, inerrant, and without any mixture of error. We can learn from our experiences and our traditions in how systems and practices should be arranged in the local church, but our experiences and our traditions must submit to God’s Word. We always want to be firm where the Bible is firm and charitable where there Bible allows room for disagreements. There are many disagreements in how the church should be arranged from godly, scholarly, conservative Christians. Church polity, or church government, is a place where we should make room for a charitable discussion, but we still must ground that discussion in the Bible. God cares about the organization and behavior in the church. God writes through Paul under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, 1 Tim 3:14-15,

I hope to come to you soon, but I am writing these things to you so that, if I delay, you may know how one ought to behave in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, a pillar and buttress of truth.

Paul wrote to Timothy so that he would know how one ought to behave in the household of God. There is a specific way that the church should function. And God cares about how the church is organized because it is the church of the living God. The church is a reflection of the one true and living God. The church is a pillar and buttress of truth. This means that the church holds up and supports truth. The church is entrusted with the mystery of godliness (1 Cor. 4:1). Listen as Paul explains it in 1 Tim 3:16,

Great indeed, we confess, is the mystery of godliness: He was manifested in the flesh, vindicated by the Spirit, seen by angels, proclaimed among the nations, believed on in the world, taken up in glory.

Jesus Christ was manifested in the flesh. He was God incarnate. He lived the perfect human life, free from sin and corruption. He was innocent, but made to be guilty for the sake of sinners. After his death, he was vindicated by the Spirit, in his resurrection from the dead conquering the grave for all who trust in Him. And this is what the church proclaims among the nations. We proclaim the mystery of godliness, a mystery once hidden, but now disclosed, that Christ has come, the righteous for the unrighteous to bring us to God. We proclaim this great news to the world, and people believe. And when people believe in Jesus Christ, they are saved. Romans 10:9-10,

Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved.

This is the glorious news that the church has been entrusted to protect and proclaim. The church is the steward of this mystery to help people cross over from death to life, from the kingdom of darkness to the kingdom of the Beloved Son. We are the church of the living God, therefore it is important that we know how we ought to behave as God’s representatives on Earth.

As I mentioned a few weeks ago, Jesus Christ established the church. Matthew 16:18, “And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it (emphasis added).” As Jesus has established the church, he is the head of the church. Ephesians 5:23 says, “Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.” Colossians 1:18, “He is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent.” All authority given in the church stems from Jesus Christ. The church must hold fast to the Head, from whom the whole body, nourished and knit together through its joints and ligaments, grows with a growth that is from God (Col 2:19). Jesus is ultimately the one who is in charge of the church, and he has given his authority to others to govern, to lead and to serve His Bride, the church.

I was not raised a Baptist, but became a Baptist by conviction. I studied the Bible and I came to believe from the Bible in the Baptist’s historic view of the church. I say historic, because not every Baptist church looks like a historic Baptist Church. Who is in charge of the church? Let us look at the Scriptures together and see how the Bible answers this question.

The Church is Governed by the Congregation

The final earthly authority in the church is the church itself. As we have established earlier, it is important to know who is in charge of the church in order to know who will be ultimately held responsible when things go wrong. Jesus addresses sin in the church and a plan on how to deal with it, Matthew 18:15-20,

If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.16 But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. 17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. 18 Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 19 Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. 20 For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.

Jesus shows the proper progression to deal with sin. The first step is to address the individual. If they don’t listen, the next step is to bring two or three with you. If they do not listen to two or three believers, Jesus says tell it to the church. And if they do not listen to the church, they are to be treated as a non-believer. Jesus gives the final authority to the congregation, not a board of elders or a board of deacons, or trustees, but to the church.

In Acts 6 there arose a complaint that certain widows were being overlooked in the distribution of food. Acts 6:2-3, “And the twelve summoned the full number of the disciples and said, “It is not right that we should give up preaching the word of God to serve tables. Therefore, brothers (referring to the full number of disciples), pick out from among you seven men.” And verse 5, “And what they said pleased the whole gathering, they chose…” The final authority in choosing their leaders was the congregation.

Paul assumes the congregation is in charge when he holds them accountable for allowing sin in the church. 1 Corinthians 5:1-2,

It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that is not tolerated even among pagans, for a man has his father’s wife. And you are arrogant! Ought you not rather to mourn? Let him who has done this be removed from among you (emphasis added)

Who is the you here? Who is the letter written to? To the church of God that is in Corinth. Paul ultimately does not blame the pastor, but holds the congregation responsible for the sin within the church.

Again Paul writes to the church about a matter of church discipline, in 2 Corinthians 2:6-8,

For such a one, this punishment by the majority is enough, so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. So I beg you to reaffirm your love for him (emphasis added).

Paul says that the punishment of the majority of the church was sufficient and now the church should bring the expelled member back into the fellowship. Paul did not address the pastor or the leaders, but rather the church. In addition, one pastor notes, “In Galatians, Paul called on the congregations to judge the teaching they had been hearing. In 2 Timothy 4, Paul reproved not just the false teachers, but also those who paid them to teach what their itching ears wanted to hear.[1]” Are you seeing a pattern? When there is sin in the household of faith, God holds the church responsible. Why? Because they are the final authority!!

The fact that God holds the church responsible for sin should show us how important God values involvement of his people as members in the local church. He vests His authority in the body of Christ and holds them accountable to steward the gospel. Although God ultimately holds the church responsible, He calls some men to lead the church, not to rule, but rather to lead.

The Church is Led by the Elders

The last week I mentioned that a healthy church member should submit faithfully to their church’s leadership. [2] There are three things I want you to notice about the office of elder. First, an elder/pastor must be a man of godly character. Paul lays out the qualifications in 1 Timothy 3:1-7,
I am sure that this sounded self-aggrandizing, but let me explain in more depth why God has set up a system for particular men to lead his church rather than one man. There are two offices in the church laid out in Scripture: pastors and deacons. God gives very specific qualifications for both these offices. The Bible uses many words to describe the pastoral office: pastor/shepherd, elder, bishop, or overseer. They are used interchangeably in the New Testament (as seen in second half of Acts 20).

The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.

The qualifications are cleared marked out. Notice that these elders do not have the potential of these traits, but actually have proven themselves to already have these traits. Paul says “an overseer must be,” not “an overseer must be striving to be.” Elders are not perfect, but they should exemplify a godly character. God is asking the church to submit to men with a godly character.

Secondly, God is asking men to lead who have the ability to teach God’s Word. Paul says here in 1 Timothy that elders must be able to teach. They must know the Word of God. He says something similarly when describing elders in Titus 1:9 that, “He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.” Elders are responsible to guard the doctrinal purity of the church through their teaching. They are called to both give instruction in sound doctrine and rebuke those that contradict it.

These first two general characteristics of godly character and godly wisdom are nothing new, but there is a third thing I want you to notice about elders in the New Testament and that is their number. The Bible teaches that the church should have a plurality of elders. It teaches that multiple men, not one man, should lead the church in character and wisdom. Listen to these verses,

Acts 14:23, “And when they had appointed elders (plural) for them in every church (singular), with prayer and fasting they committed them to the Lord in whom they had believed.”

Acts 20:17, “Now from Miletus he sent to Ephesus and called the elders (plural) of the church (singular) to come to him.”

Philippians 1:1, “Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, to all the saints in Christ Jesus who are at Philippi, with the overseers (plural) and the deacons: (One church, a plurality of pastors)”

Titus 1:5, “This is why I left you in Crete, so that you might put what remained into order, and appoint elders (plural) in every town (singular) as I directed you.”

James 5:14, “Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders (plural) of the church (singular),”

The plurality of elders or pastors is clearly taught in the Bible. This does not mean the Bible teaches that there is no distinctive role for one lead teaching elder/pastor.

Paul told Timothy to, “Devote yourself to the public reading of Scripture, to exhortation and to teaching.” He also told them in I Timothy 5:17 “Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching.” Among a group of leaders there would be one (possibly more) that were devoted to the study and preaching of God’s Word. Their responsibility to teach does not mean they are the only elders.

Is it healthy to have a plurality of pastors? Yes. Let me provide several reasons briefly why it beneficial for a church to have a plurality of elders, both staff and lay elders.

Improves the Congregational Care – Multiple qualified men, with godly character and godly wisdom, will be better able to care for the spiritual needs of the congregation. There are limits to the spiritual care that can be done by one man. 1 Peter 5:2 says to elders to, “Shepherd the flock of God that is among you.” It is both wise and biblical to have multiple men give themselves to this shepherding task. One of the dangers that I have seen develop with the one pastor model is that men who are qualified to serve as elders, but do not feel called to the full-time vocational preaching ministry, feel that they are not called to be a pastor. The “preacher” is only one of the shepherds. A plurality of elders gives a platform to godly men to use their shepherding gifts to care for the spiritual needs of the body.

Protects the Church from the Pastor – Although pastors should be godly men, they are not infallible men. Pastors need to be held accountable in their teaching and their character. I Tim 4:16 “Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers.” A plurality of pastors helps guard the church from sin in a pastor’s life by surrounding him with men to help watch his life and his teaching. It also helps to provide wisdom in decision making. Mark Dever says, “Sharing leadership with a group of godly, able non-staff elders will almost invariably keep pastors (especially young ones) from saying or doing dumb things, or from saying or doing the right things in unhelpful ways.”[3] Unfortunately, pastors can be domineering and totalitarian in their leadership and this often hurts the church. A plurality of elders protects the church from the misuse of authority because it shares authority. It also protects the church from taking on the personality of the senior pastor. The church should be shaped around the Word of God and not the personality and vision of one man.

Protects the Pastor from the Church – All leaders are criticized and pastors are no exception. The dropout rate of pastors is very high. One of the reasons is that most pastors are called to share the weight of the criticism on their own. Multiple elders protect the church from developing an “Us vs. Him” mentality that can be very common when disagreements arise.[4] The plurality of pastors shares the emotional load of the criticism within a church and the spiritual load of shepherding the people. Pastors also are part of a team of men who have demonstrated a lifetime of godliness and faithfulness to the church. A plurality of elders surround the pastor with men from the community which can help the pastor learn how to care for the specific group of people the Holy Spirit has put in his care. Lay elders help the pastor learn how to love the people, because they are one of the people.

The plurality of elders is both wise and biblical. They do not rule, but provide godly direction and leadership for the congregation. The final authority is always invested in the church. Therefore, if the elder falls to false teaching or false living, then it is the congregation’s responsibility to remove him.

The Church is Served by the Deacons

The second office the Bible gives for the church is the office of deacon. 1 Timothy 3:8-13,

Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, not addicted to much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain. 9 They must hold the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience.10 And let them also be
tested first; then let them serve as deacons if they prove themselves blameless. 11 Their wives likewise must be dignified, not slanderers, but sober-minded, faithful in all things. 12 Let deacons each be the husband of one wife, managing their children and their own households well. 13 For those who serve well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves and also great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.

Deacons, like elders, should also be men who possess a godly character and knowledge of the Scripture. The only significant difference in the qualifications of a deacon and elder/pastor is the ability to teach. Then what are deacons called to do?

The best place to see the main purpose of deacons is to go to the start of the deacon ministry in Acts 6. There was disunity in the church as certain widows were being overlooked. Acts 6:2-4,

And the twelve summoned the full number of the disciples and said, “It is not right that we should give up preaching the word of God to serve (to diakonien) tables. 3 Therefore, brothers, pick out from among you seven men of good repute, full of the Spirit and of wisdom, whom we will appoint to this duty. 4 But we will devote ourselves to prayer and to the ministry (diakonian) of the word.

The seven men where set apart to serve (or to deacon) the tables while the pastors were to devote themselves to minister (or to deacon) the word. The pastors and elders serve in tandem. Again Mark Dever is helpful here when he says,

Deacons, then, serve to care for the physical and financial needs of the church, and they do so in a way that heals divisions, brings unity under the Word, and supports the leadership of the elders. Without this practical service of the deacons, the elders will not be freed to devote themselves to praying and serving the Word to the people. Elders need deacons to serve practically, and deacons need elders to lead spiritually.[5]

Conclusion

God has provided a recipe for the structure of the church. He has given his Word so that we should know how we ought to behave in the household of faith, the church of the living God. We could change the recipe, but if we do, the church may lose its heavenly flavor. Beloved, God has given us his recipe for the church, will we follow it?



[1] Dever, Mark. 9 Marks of a Healthy (booklet). 9Marks. Washington, D.C. 2005 p.56-57.
[2] Dever, Mark. 9 Marks of a Healthy (booklet). 9Marks. Washington, D.C. 2005 p.55
[3] Dever, Mark. The Deliberate Church. Wheaton. Crossway Book. 133-134. 2005
[4] Dever, Mark. The Deliberate Church. Wheaton. Crossway Book. 133-134. 2005
[5] Dever, Mark. The Deliberate Church. Wheaton. Crossway Book. 132. 2005

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Sabbath Rest



"Every one of you shall revere his mother and his father, and you shall keep my Sabbaths: I am the Lord your God." Leviticus 19:3

Beloved,


This past Sunday morning, my daughter prayed at breakfast, “Lord, help us honor the Sabbath day and keep it holy.” As I heard her pray, I was reminded of the privilege of the Sabbath and the kindness of God in giving us the Sabbath. God has ordered our lives to have a regular rhythm of rest and work. We are to model God in his work of creation in that he worked for six days and rested on the seventh day. Jesus said, “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath (Mark 2:27).”


One of the reasons God gave the Sabbath to man was to remind us of the eternal rest offered in Jesus Christ. Hebrews 3:18-19, “And to whom did he swear that they would not enter his rest, but to those who were disobedient? So we see that they were unable to enter because of unbelief.” The Israelites were not allowed to enter God’s rest because of their unbelief. Unbelief keeps us from God’s rest, but the offer of rest still stands for those who will believe.


Beloved, our weekly Sabbath rest foreshadows our eternal rest. Hebrews 4:9-10, “So then, there remains a Sabbath rest for the people of God, for whoever has entered God’s rest has also rested from his works as God did from his.” Do not forsake the Sabbath. It was given to help you long for the eternal Sabbath rest of the people God. It was given to remind us of the finished work of Jesus Christ who made an end to all our efforts to achieve our own salvation. Jesus has offered us rest through his finished work on the cross. Beloved, honor the Sabbath and rejoice that God has given you eternal rest in Him.

Monday, March 3, 2014

What is a Healthy Church Member?


During my junior year in college, my brother and I drove to Wisconsin to visit my grandparents for Thanksgiving. My brother let me borrow his Chevy Blazer to drive cross country with a group of friends because my 1980 Volkswagen Van broke down 50 miles into our trip. My brother graciously allowed me to
use his car, but he needed his car back to use during college. I picked him up in Chicago and we were going to my grandparents where I was going to pick up a car from my grandparents. I was excited about the prospect of getting a “new car.” The car had been in storage and had not been driven in a few months. I’ll never forget the ride up to the garage to pick up the car. I looked at my brother and said, “I cannot wait to pick up the Dodge Stratus. It is a nice car and in great condition.” My brother started laughing uncontrollably. He looked at me through tears and said, “You are not getting the Stratus. You are getting the station wagon.” “What? I thought I was getting the Stratus.” Nope. My “new car” was a 1986 Mercury Marquis Station Wagon white with wood paneling and bright maroon interior. My excitement turned to dread, because I faced the reality of unmet expectations. I was still getting a “new car,” but instead of getting the “new car” I was expecting, I was getting a car that was 15 years older that would be perfect for the mom with 3 kids that had a lot of groceries. It was not a college student’s dream car. I eventually learned to love that car, but at first I was disappointed because it did not meet my expectations.

Expectations are double-edged sword. When your expectations are high, anything that does not meet those expectations brings disappointment. On the other hand, if your expectations are low, anything that exceeds them brings joy. Proper expectations are very important. They are especially important for the church. Last week I made the case for church membership being biblical, so today I want to provide the expectations for a health church member. I want to provide the framework for the proper expectations of a healthy church member.

It will not be an exhaustive list, but I want to highlight a few things that I believe are missing in our American church culture. For starters, the expectations of a church member are the expectations of a Christian. Paul writes in Romans 12:9-21 the marks of a true Christian. Listen to the high expectations that God has for his people,

9 Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. 11 Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. 12 Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.13 Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality. 14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. 17 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:9-21, ESV)

This list is the goal to which all Christians should aspire. You can see that it would be very difficult to cover every aspect of this passage in one message, but I hope to highlight a few of them.


The Healthy Church Member Should Love Faithfully
The first thing Paul highlights in this passage in verse 9 is that Christians should have genuine love for each other. Love is a staple for the faithful Christian. Jesus says that the two greatest commandments are summed up in this word of love. Matthew 22:37-40,

37 And Jesus said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. 38 This is the great and first commandment. 39 And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. 40 On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 22:37-40)

You can summarize all of the expectations of a church member in one word: love. We are called to love one another. There are a lot of secular definitions of love, but what is biblical love? One of the best places to start is the Bible’s love chapter, 1 Corinthians 13.

1 Corinthians 13 has been read at countless weddings and written on countless Valentine and Anniversary Cards and even made its way onto coffee mugs. Although this love should typify a marriage, it was not originally written for a husband and wife. Notice the context surrounding this chapter. It sits between 1 Corinthians 12 and 1 Corinthians 14, during Paul’s discussion in how Christians should use their spiritual gifts to build up the body of Christ. They are spoken specifically to how church members are called to relate to one another. Church members are called to choose the more excellent way in loving their brothers and sisters in their local church.

Church member, is your love patient and kind to others in the church? Or is your love boastful, envious, irritable, resentful, arrogant or rude? Does your love insist on its own way? How many problems could be avoided in the church if people did not insist on their own way, if they did not insist on their own preferences? Preferences are natural and God-given. We all have certain songs that we like more than other songs, but it is unloving to insist that your favorite songs are the ones that should be played the most. We all have certain preferences of organizations and mission endeavors that we think should be supported financially, but it is unloving to insist that your favorite organizations and mission endeavors should be supported the most. True love does not insist on its own way, but rather puts others first.

Beloved, love bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things. What if our church was filled with church members who loved with that kind of love? Who wouldn’t want to be a part of that church? The healthy church member should love faithfully.

The Healthy Church Member Should Live Faithfully

We also must live faithfully. God desires his people to live a morally righteous life. Peter writes in his first letter to the scattered churches in his day,

Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. 14 As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, 15 but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, 16 since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” (1 Peter 1:13-16, ESV)

Peter challenges Christians to live holy lives. As God is holy, his church also should be holy in all its conduct. A healthy church member takes their conduct seriously. Sin brings reproach to the name of Christ, but also brings reproach to the name of the church. How you live and act in your neighborhood affects the reputation of Park Baptist Church.

All parents know this instinctively, for when our children are out in public and act in a way that is unbecoming of good character and our good name, we feel embarrassed. Why? We are embarrassed because their behavior reflects upon us. Likewise, we do not want God or this church to be embarrassed by our behavior. We should care how we reflect Christ at our jobs, at restaurants, and at our family gatherings because our conduct reflects upon Christ and on upon the name of Park Baptist Church. The healthy church member understands the importance of living a holy and upright life.

Now this doesn’t mean that we trust in our holy and upright lives to commend us before God. Even in the passage above, Peter writes, “set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” We must set our hope fully on the grace of God shown in Jesus Christ. All our righteous works cannot erase our sin against God. Our sin has to be punished. This is why our hope has to be set fully on the righteousness of Jesus Christ. Philippians 3:9 says that we should want to be found in Christ, not having a righteousness of our own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith (Philippians 3:9). Friend, if you believe that you will go to heaven because of your good works, please know that the God’s Word would disagree with you. None is righteous, no not one. We all have turned aside from God’s way and have become unrighteous…but God has given us his righteousness. Jesus lived a righteous and holy life. He never sinned, but was punished as a sinner. After he was crucified, dead and buried, God raised him from the dead. The death and resurrection of Jesus Christ gives everyone the opportunity to experience his righteousness through faith in his finished work of redemption. Friend, repent from trusting in your good works and trust in Jesus’s good work on the cross on your behalf. Our hope is built on nothing less, than Jesus’ blood and righteousness. You can be righteous today, by trusting in Jesus as your Savior.

And as we set our hope fully on this righteousness, God calls us to live a holy life. We know that a holy life does not save us, but it shows the world the power of Christ in our redemption. Our new life in Christ shines a spotlight on the saving power of God. God uses our new lives in Christ to call others to follow him. The faithful church member should live faithfully for God’s glory and for the reputation of his people.

The Healthy Church Member Should Attend Faithfully

The church is in a sad state when pastors have to make the argument that the regular gathering of believers is important. Christians should love to gather with God’s people to hear God’s Word, to sing God’s praises,
and to encourage God’s people with the glorious good news of Jesus Christ. This is Christianity 101. Hebrews 10:24-25,

And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.

The writer of Hebrews encourages God’s people to stir up one another to love and good works and to encourage one another as the final Day of the Lord is drawing near. And we cannot fulfill these obligations without meeting together. The gathering is one of the most basic blessings of the church. The gathering is the church. Remember the Greek word for church, ekklesia, used in the New Testament was taken from the Hebrew, qahal, which means “assembly.”

The healthy church member should be attending faithfully. The numbers are not good in the American church. The people of God are not faithful in their church attendance. Granted, people get sick and people take vacations. I am not expecting perfect attendance, but regular attendance should be the expectation. If you do not guard you time, it is easy to become a part-time church goer. Listen to this excerpt of an article by Trevin Wax,

Geoff and Christine are thirty-something churchgoers who love Jesus and love their three kids. They consider themselves faithful members of New Life Community Church. Their oldest is about to be in the youth group, and their youngest is finally out of diapers. Christine has been involved in the kids’ ministry through the years. Geoff is a deacon. But they are part-timers when it comes to church attendance, and they never set out to be. They are not alone. Recent statistics show that an increasing number of evangelicals who are firm in their faith are flabby in their practice of actually gathering with their brothers and sisters in worship. It’s the part-time syndrome, and it can sneak up on any of us. Let’s go back to Geoff and Christine. There are 52 Sundays a year, and last year, they attended a worship gathering on 28 of those Sundays. (That’s an average of about twice a month.) What happened?

Vacation: To maximize his allotted days, Geoff took the family to the mountains during the kids’ spring break, stretching over two weekends (one of which happened to be Easter!). There was the summer beach vacation, another stretch of a week and two weekends, and then a fall getaway. Total = 5 Sundays.

Sports: Their oldest son is on a travel soccer team. Many of the games are on weekends, and they believe it would be a better testimony to be among unbelievers on Sunday mornings rather than let down the team. Total = 9 Sundays.

Sickness: With their youngest child going to preschool, the family seems more susceptible to illnesses than before, and sickness always seems to hit on the weekends. Total = 3 Sundays.

Guest Preacher: When Pastor Jon is out of town, Geoff and Christine usually take the weekend off. They never like the guest speaker as much as Pastor Jon. Total = 3 Sundays.

Visiting In-Laws: Christine’s parents come twice a year to spend the weekend with the family. To maximize their time, they usually spend the weekends catching up and doing some shopping. Total = 2 Sundays.

Holiday: Thanksgiving weekend, and the week in between Christmas and New Year’s, the family is traveling. Total = 2 Sundays.

Geoff and Christine may be a fictional couple, but their situation is true for many of us. Recently, a church leader told me their most faithful attendees are only in church 2-3 times a month. They basically expect churchgoers to be “hit or miss” every week.[1]


Church leaders expect faithful members to be hit or miss in their church attendance. What a low standard!! Beloved, it is a great privilege to gather with God’s people. Let us make it priority. I do not want to guilt people into coming to church, but if Jesus gave up his blood for us, can we not give up our Sundays for him?

The Healthy Church Member Should Submit Faithfully

Hebrews 13:17 says,

Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be no advantage to you.

The Bible commands Christians to submit to their church leaders. Leadership is difficult. It can be challenging to make decisions that may upset people and affect their lives, but decisions still have to be made. The second half of verse 17 says that leaders should watch out for your souls, “with joy and not with groaning for that would be no advantage to you.” Your submission and trust in this church’s leadership ultimately is for your benefit. The greater trust you have in the church’s leadership, the greater joy it is for pastors to guard your souls. How much easier is it to do things you enjoy? People always say if you love what you are doing, it doesn’t feel like work. It is work, but it doesn’t feel like work. You are typically more productive and efficient at the work you enjoy. This verse in Hebrews is saying to submit to your leaders in such a way to make the elders job of keeping watch over your souls a joy to them and, therefore, a blessing to you. If it is a joy, they will be more effective and efficient, which is a blessing to you.

Regardless of your submission, pastors are still going to watch over your souls. They are still going to lead and make decisions. Wouldn’t it be better for all involved to trust God’s Word and submit to church leadership? It sounds self-aggrandizing for pastors to say, “You must submit to us,” but this is how God has set up his church. Pastors are told not to be domineering, but a faithful example (1 Peter 5). We will be held accountable before the judgment seat of Christ for how we lead, and you will be held accountable before the judgment seat of Christ in how you submit. Trust God’s Word. The healthy church member should submit faithfully.

The Healthy Church Member Should Give Faithfully

The healthy church member should give their money for the work of the Lord. The goal or the starting point for New Testament giving should be 10%. Malachi 3 equates a failure to tithe with robbing God. God has given us resources and we are in turn to give back the first fruits of our resources back to Him. God expects you to give to his work, but also expects you to do it cheerfully, for God loves a cheerful giver. He expects you to give in proportion to how He has blessed you. Jesus gives this example in Mark,

41 And he sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the offering box. Many rich people put in large sums.42 And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which
make a penny. 43 And he called his disciples to him and said to them, “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. 44 For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.” (Mark 12:41-44, ESV)

God loves a cheerful giver. Why does God expect his people to give? First, it protects people from the love of money which endangers their souls. Paul writes in 1 Timothy 6:9-10,

But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.

And Jesus says in Matthew 19:23-24,

23 And Jesus said to his disciples, “Truly, I say to you, only with difficulty will a rich person enter the kingdom of heaven. 24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God” (Matthew 19:23-24).

Secondly, it proves that Jesus is Lord of our life. Jesus says, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matt. 6:21). When we give our treasure to Jesus, our hearts follow that treasure to Jesus. Jesus uses money to test our devotion to him. Giving your money is a way to give your heart to Jesus. Thirdly, it helps support the work of the kingdom. It is not necessary for a church to have a full-time paid vocational pastor, but it is often helpful. The blessing of having a vocational pastor is that you free him up from other pursuits so that he can better watch over your souls through the prayer and preaching ministry of the Word. The Bible says in 1 Tim 5:17, “Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching.” Paul claims it is a right for people to be supported in their gospel work. Those who care for you spiritually should be compensated financially, but monetary gain can never be a motivation for pastors. Even in the qualification for pastors, 1 Timothy 3 says that an elder should not be a lover of money and in 1 Peter 5 that elders should serve willingly, not under compulsion. Pastors should never be about the money, and the people should never hold the pastor’s salary over this head. The more resources the church has the more the church can invest into the kingdom of God.

There are a lot of reasons to give. Most Christians believe in theory that it is more blessed to give than to receive, but most Christians don’t actually believe that in practice. In 2007, a study was done that indicated only 5% of Americans tithe.[2] And the average Christian gives just 2.43% of their income away.[3] If giving is an indicator of our spiritual health and where we place our treasure, is there any surprise why our churches are dying spiritually? The healthy church member should give faithfully.

The Healthy Church Member Should Serve Faithfully

1 Peter 4:10 says, “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace.” The expectation is for church members to serve. God has given each a gift to be used to build up the body of Christ. Serving the church is one way we follow in Jesus’s footsteps. Mark 10:45, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Do not come to church be served, but to serve and give your life for others. Do not come to get, but to give. Follow Christ’s example. The healthy church member should serve faithfully.

The Healthy Church Member Should Pray Faithfully

Prayer is one of the greatest gifts we can give the church. The church is engaged in supernatural work. At the beginning of almost every epistle, you see the author talking about their prayers for the churches’ spiritual health. One of my favorite prayers is Philippians 1:9-11,

And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, 10 so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, 11 filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.

Paul prayed that the love of the church would grow more and more in knowledge of God’s Word and in wisdom in applying that Word so that the church would live a pure and holy life as they set their hope fully on the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ their Lord. We should model Paul’s example in praying that our church would grow in its love for God and for one another for the glory and praise of God. We should all strive to be healthy church members, but we should never look down on those who are not. When we see others in our midst who may not be meeting the biblical expectations of church membership, we should not look down on them, but we should pray for them and labor alongside them to grow in their love for God and His Church.

God has given high expectations to His people. Beloved, let us strive to be a healthy church, full of healthy church members to the glory and praise of God.

None Other



“It is the Lord your God you shall fear. Him you shall serve and by his name you shall swear. You shall not go after other gods, the gods of the peoples who are around you.” Deuteronomy 6:13-14

Beloved,

A father was traveling and bought a stuffed animal for his young daughter. It was a baby crocodile. The two year old could not say crocodile, so she called it a frog. No matter how the father tried to explain to his daughter that it was not a frog, but a crocodile, the young child was insistent that it was a frog. Truth did not matter to this young child, but only her version of the truth. In her world, the truth was that baby crocodile was a frog and nothing else mattered.

Like this young child, we too often only believe our version of the truth. We come to God not as he is, but as we want him to be. The only way that we can know that we are coming to God in truth is by coming to God as he is revealed in the Word of Truth, the Holy Scriptures. The first commandment says, “You shall have no other gods before me.” The Lord demands all our worship and all our devotion. He does not want us to bow down before any other gods. When we fail to worship God, we enter into idolatry. Idolatry is to value something or someone in a way that hinders our supreme love and devotion that belongs to God. It could be taking a good thing and making it an ultimate thing.

We have been commanded by God to have no other gods before Him. Our truth is never as important as God’s truth. We cannot hold to our version of the truth about God and this world, but we must hold God’s truth as revealed in the Bible. Ask yourself, “Is there anything you value or desire more than God?” If there is, then you are breaking the first commandment. You must turn back to God for, “It is the Lord your God you shall fear. Him you shall serve and by his name you shall swear.”

We all have broken the first commandment and followed after other gods in pursuing our own version of truth. God demands true worship. And true worship can only be found in Jesus. The law came through Moses, grace and truth through Jesus Christ. God’s truth can only be seen in the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Come to the truth, come to Christ.

Love Thy Neighbor



You shall love your neighbor as yourself. Matthew 22:39

Beloved,

One of the major problems in our world is low expectations. The problem with low expectations is that people tend to meet them. The beauty of the gospel is that it has both high and low expectations at the same time. The gospel says that we had no expectation for salvation without the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. You cannot get any lower than no expectations. Although the gospel shows how we have no expectations to save ourselves, it demands extremely high expectations in our response.

Jesus said in Matthew 5:48, “You therefore must be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect.” By God’s grace we are perfect as we are in union with Jesus Christ. His perfection is our perfection for those who have faith in the gospel. Because we have been given the righteousness of Christ, we have the duty, the desire, and the power to love our neighbors as ourselves. What does it mean to love our neighbors as ourselves? Listen to what Charles Wesley says,

    "Love your neighbor as yourself." Love—embrace with the most-tender goodwill, the most earnest and          cordial affection, the most inflamed desires of preventing or removing all evil and bringing every possible        good. Your neighbor—not only your friends, kinfolk, or acquaintances; not only the virtuous ones who          regard you, who extend or return your kindness, but every person, not excluding those you have never          seen or know by name; not excluding those you know to be evil and unthankful, those who despitefully          use you. Even those you shall love as yourself with the same invariable thirst after their happiness. Use the      same unwearied care to screen them from whatever might grieve or hurt either their soul or body. This is        
love.[1]

This is a very high expectation. We may not always meet the demand to love our neighbor as ourselves, but are we at least aiming for it? In a world of low expectations, let us raise the bar of love to meet the high expectations of our Savior. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another (1 John 4:10-11). God never demands anything more from us than he has already given to us. We love another, because God so loved us.

In Christ,

Pastor Dave




[1] From “The Two Great Commandments” in Renew My Heart: Classic Insights by John Wesley (Uhrichsville, Ohio: Barbour, 2011)